Who is Your Soul Mate?
by Relationship Coaches, Susie and Otto Collins
There's certainly a mystique around the idea of
soul mates
and
how to
find a soul mate.
Although we agree that a connection with a soul mate can be a
special feeling and finding your special someone can be a
wonderful gift, we have a little different view of what
soul mates
are.
The commonly held belief about soul mates is that there is one
soul mate
for you and if you don't find each other, you
will have
to "settle" for a life of mediocrity when it comes to an intimate
relationship.
Many people who want to find a soul mate have gone
through
several
relationship breakups
and feel they are not lucky at love.
They
feel they will
never find someone to share their
life with.
That's not what we believe at all! We have a somewhat
different
soul mate definition
than what what is usually held.
To us, a
soul mate relationship
can be one
filled with
passion,
excitement, an incredible connection
and all those things
you've
seen in romance movies
and imagined it to be. We recognize
that those relationships
do exist and we feel that it is possible to "find"
that special
person if that's your intention and path this time around.
But that's not the whole story.
Here's where we take a little different viewpoint from many popular
beliefs
about soul mate relationships. We believe that
soul mate
relationships
can take many different forms. They
can be intimate
relationships, like
we have, or they can be
between friends, co-workers,
family or people
on the street.
We believe that we come together in relationships for personal
and
spiritual
growth and our "soul mates" help us. They can be loved ones
or they can be people who really
irritate
us--and we can learn from all
of them
So if anyone can be a soul mate, can you attract a
soul mate that you
want to you? Yes--but we also
encourage you to
think about the people
who are already in your life as people to learn from and start there.
If
we look at the people in our lives as helpers on our life journey, our
life begins to change and we can begin attracting what we want to us
more of the time.
If you want more information about soul mates, visit
http://www.SoulMateRelationships.com